It has been so nice over the past few weeks to get together with the girls in our girls group! During our afternoons together, we've had such wonderful and fun times and here is a glimpse into some of those days . . .Week 1 - Painting
In the box of tea party items that Miss Lila had sent for the girls, she had also included a little painting project . . .
One of the finished plaques - a fall scene :)
Painting away . . . the girls wanted Leah and I to do this project with them and as there were more than enough of the plaques, we did. :) We all had so much fun together!
Another one of the finished plaques (these are some of the attributes that we have learned about so far.)
Our lesson for the day was on Proverbs 11:22 “As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a beautiful woman who lacks discretion.” The focus for the lesson was upon the word 'discretion', and as the definition of this and other related words were kind of long and extensive, we typed them up so each of the girls could have a copy. We slowly read through each of the definitions discussing them as we went along. And while I am sure that not everything in them was grasped, at least it is a beginning for the girls to understand what true and godly discretion is . . .
Discretion is: Prudence, or knowledge and prudence; that discernment which enables a person to judge critically of what is correct and proper, united with caution; nice discernment and judgment, directed by circumspection, and primarily regarding one’s own conduct.
Discernment is: The act of discerning; also the power or faculty of the mind, by which it distinguishes one thing from another, as truth from falsehood, virtue from vice; acuteness of judgment; power of perceiving differences of things or ideas, and their relations and tendencies.
Prudence: implies caution in deliberating and consulting on the most suitable means to accomplish valuable purposes, and the exercise of sagacity [quickness or acuteness of discernment] in discerning and selecting them. Prudence differs from wisdom in this, that prudence implies more caution and reserve than wisdom, or is exercised more in foreseeing and avoiding evil, than in devising and executing that which is good. It is sometimes mere caution or circumspection.
Circumspection means: “Caution; attention to all the facts and circumstances of a case, and to the natural or probable consequences of a measure, with a view to the correct course of conduct or to avoid danger.”
To put it more simply, discretion is in part:
- examining situations, ideas, etc. to determine truth from error.
- seeing and determining right from wrong.
- judging one’s own actions, words, thoughts, etc. to see if they are according to God’s Word.
- not ‘jumping in with both feet’ so to speak, but approaching issues, decisions, and other such things with caution accompanied with “wisdom from above” (James 3:17).
- And this caution and wisdom is not in human strength, feelings or emotions, or ideas, but must be founded fully and completely upon the word of God to truly be classified as discretion.
After talking about these for quite some time and sharing 'practical application' ideas, we read a verse from Psalms . . .
“Teach me good discernment and knowledge, for I believe in Your commandments” (Psalm 199:66; the word 'discernment' in this verse is translated from the same Hebrew word that 'discretion' is translated from in Proverbs 11:22)
We looked at a few more verses after this and had a bit more discussion before we brought the lesson to a close with an encouragement for each one of us to seek to grow in discretion. Then it was time to start on the potpourri bags! The girls were really excited about this! First they needed to pin the edges of their bags together to hold them in place while they sewed the seams . . .
Pinning
and then they began on the sewing . . .
Threading the needle Leah and I had traced lines on the outside edges of the bag, so they simply followed along the lines . . . and we made sure to keep reminding them: "little stitches!" So far they are doing such a good job on these!
Week 2 - Baking and Cooking
This week, the girls made a full meal . . . chili stew and muffins. This was the first time that they have made two things at once, and they seemed to really enjoy it! And they started to figure out how to take advantage of the times of 'waiting' (for example, while waiting for the meat to brown, mix up the dry ingredients for the muffins; while waiting for the chili to come to a boil, finish mixing the muffins up; etc.)
Reading the recipe
Working on measuring out the dry ingredients for the muffins
Carefully measuring the sugar
Stirring the chili stew
Once the stew was simmering on the stove and the muffins were baking in the oven, we gathered in the living room to review last week's lesson on discretion. I pulled out our dry erase board and wrote first the verse from Proverbs on it and then wrote the following as well (which was taken from last week's lesson) . . .
Discretion is:
- examining situations, ideas, etc. to determine truth from error.
- seeing and determining right from wrong.
- judging one’s own actions, words, thoughts, etc. to see if they are according to God’s Word.
The girls copied each of these things down while we discussed them yet again. After we had finished, I asked them if it had helped to go through these once again and to have them written up on the board to which I received an emphatic 'yes!' (Leah and I are trying to figure out the different ways that the girls learn best and then to implement those into our lesson times. And so far, it seems that going through things twice and using 'visual' things really helps them!)
One thing that was also really on my heart to stress during this lesson was the great importance of going to God's word for our answers. For using His Word as the basis for determining right from wrong and truth from error. If we do not have some standard or starting point, right and wrong is really just a matter of our own interpretation and is based on our own feelings/beliefs as opposed to an absolute truth, and that truth being God and His word. And with discretion, we must have a foundation and standard for it in order to be able to grow in it and practice it, and that standard is the word of God. And how do we know what Scripture says about these things? By reading it, studying it, and applying it to our lives.
Once we had finished discussing all of this, we memorized the verse from Proverbs: "As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, so is a beautiful woman who lacks discretion" (Proverbs 11:22.) The girls always enjoy memorizing verses as we have a fun way that we do it . . . we have the verse written up on the dry erase board and then gradually the girls take turns choosing a word to erase until eventually, the entire verse is erased and they can say it without help. Using this method, the girls quickly had this verse committed to memory, and then it was time for them to write in their journals . . .
Writing in her journal with Leah helping her to spell some of the words
And after the girls were finished with that, they worked on their potpourri sachets until the end of our time together . . .
Carefully sewing
Helping one of the girls with her sewing So that is a glimpse into some of the times that we have had with the girls recently! :)